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Posted on December 12, 2011
I am poly. I have just gotten married to a wonderful man who is also poly, and we have that lost in each others’ eyes thing.
It is rude to suggest that people who love differently from you are emotionally shallow.
I know just as many people who are serially monogamous who love their drama as I know poly people who do.
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Posted on December 7, 2011
Though I’ve never been openly poly, I’ve had open or casual relationships where we would discuss the other person or people in our lives. However, I’ve only met the other women once, and that was pretty much after I’d stopped having sex with the guy. It was fine. I don’t think anyone should be forced into intimacy with anyone else, though, just because they’re having sex with the partner. Two-way chemistry is tough enough, emotional or sexual. Three-way chemistry is asking for the moon. Sometimes you don’t want to know. Also, I can only be non-exclusive when I’m not infatuated. Poly reprimands against jealousy are just as bad as trads chiding against cheating. We’re human in every way.
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XtinaS
Posted on December 7, 2011
Also also, my usual interactive rule for poly is that my dating-folk should be able to get along with one another — like, if we’re out for pints, and I nip off to hit the head, I shouldn’t have to worry that they’ll be sitting there in awkward silence until I return. Not full-on friends, not bosom buddies, just the ability to get on.
I figure if two folk of mine can’t get on, something about my selection process is off.
There Is Nothing Wrong With You
Actions That Change Your Dating Mind
Are They Your Soulmate Or Your Faux-mate?
Are You Focusing Your Will On Being Single?
Are You Looking For Love Or Looking For A Life?
Are You Making Yourself A Priority In Relationships?
Are You On A Love Deadline? The Perfect Age For Love.
Are You Using Your Spiritual Work As A Means To Find A Partner?
Breaking Your Love Rules For Dating Success
Getting Over The Hurt When A Relationship Ends
The Best Break-Up Ever
Posted on December 12, 2011
I am poly. I have just gotten married to a wonderful man who is also poly, and we have that lost in each others’ eyes thing.
It is rude to suggest that people who love differently from you are emotionally shallow.
I know just as many people who are serially monogamous who love their drama as I know poly people who do.
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D
Posted on December 7, 2011
Though I’ve never been openly poly, I’ve had open or casual relationships where we would discuss the other person or people in our lives. However, I’ve only met the other women once, and that was pretty much after I’d stopped having sex with the guy. It was fine. I don’t think anyone should be forced into intimacy with anyone else, though, just because they’re having sex with the partner. Two-way chemistry is tough enough, emotional or sexual. Three-way chemistry is asking for the moon. Sometimes you don’t want to know. Also, I can only be non-exclusive when I’m not infatuated. Poly reprimands against jealousy are just as bad as trads chiding against cheating. We’re human in every way.
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XtinaS
Posted on December 7, 2011
Also also, my usual interactive rule for poly is that my dating-folk should be able to get along with one another — like, if we’re out for pints, and I nip off to hit the head, I shouldn’t have to worry that they’ll be sitting there in awkward silence until I return. Not full-on friends, not bosom buddies, just the ability to get on.
I figure if two folk of mine can’t get on, something about my selection process is off.
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