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Top5DOA says:
August 29, 2011 at 10:18 am
I feel that a man that is emotionally unavailable is acting in a selfish manner when making himself available in other areas to a woman.
And on the flip side, isn't it selfish for a woman to subject all of her emotional fortitude on an unwanting man and then turn around and call him the bad guy when things come to a head. Both sides have motives and neither side outweighs the other. I don't think the man is in the wrong at all, given he's stated his intent, so stop painting him as the "bad guy" just to salvage your ego.
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Slim Jackson says:
August 29, 2011 at 3:19 pm
@DOA, agreed.
My recent post Happy Birthday MJ. You Are Missed.
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Sucker For Love says:
August 29, 2011 at 9:45 pm
I never painted a picture of the man being a bad guy. I also addressed women as well and I feel that both parties play a role. However, I stand on what I said about men being selfish. “unwanting man?” Well if a man is unwanting then he shouldn’t want in other areas like I said. He shouldn’t want or accept a woman that is willing to put herself out there like that. I’ve been an “emotionally unavailable” woman before, but lots of time has passed and I’ve grown up. If my emotions arent available then Im not available at all. Men and women should deal with their emotional issues on their own time. Don’t waste anyone elses. Lack of emotional involvement really only leaves physical involvement and while some don’t have a problem with that, I personally do.
Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make
Blowing More Than His ... Mind
Confessions of a Former Mistress
Dating After Marriage
Is Dating Harder if You’re Smarter?
Dating Over Fifty-Five
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Top5DOA says:
August 29, 2011 at 10:18 am
I feel that a man that is emotionally unavailable is acting in a selfish manner when making himself available in other areas to a woman.
And on the flip side, isn't it selfish for a woman to subject all of her emotional fortitude on an unwanting man and then turn around and call him the bad guy when things come to a head. Both sides have motives and neither side outweighs the other. I don't think the man is in the wrong at all, given he's stated his intent, so stop painting him as the "bad guy" just to salvage your ego.
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Slim Jackson says:
August 29, 2011 at 3:19 pm
@DOA, agreed.
My recent post Happy Birthday MJ. You Are Missed.
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Sucker For Love says:
August 29, 2011 at 9:45 pm
I never painted a picture of the man being a bad guy. I also addressed women as well and I feel that both parties play a role. However, I stand on what I said about men being selfish. “unwanting man?” Well if a man is unwanting then he shouldn’t want in other areas like I said. He shouldn’t want or accept a woman that is willing to put herself out there like that. I’ve been an “emotionally unavailable” woman before, but lots of time has passed and I’ve grown up. If my emotions arent available then Im not available at all. Men and women should deal with their emotional issues on their own time. Don’t waste anyone elses. Lack of emotional involvement really only leaves physical involvement and while some don’t have a problem with that, I personally do.
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